As a 16 year old student, from time to time I run into situations where I forget where I put an item, leave something out of the house, or get a question wrong on a test due to carelessness.
I used to analyze the reasons for careless mistakes in exams, and at first I thought it was because I hadn't grasped the knowledge points well, but then I realized it wasn't that factor.
And it's not because you don't do enough practice questions, either; after trying a lot of brushing up, you'll still get a few wrong due to sloppiness.
Forgetting to bring something or not being able to find something is not a poor memory, my memory is actually a little stronger than my peers, it is mainly a lack of knowledge organization ability ...... This word was mentioned by the language teacher, twice I forgot to bring the test paper, the teacher pointed out that I have poor knowledge organization ability, I don't have a firm grasp of the knowledge points, and I always like to lose things ...... I think he said quite reasonable.
What should I do? I'm 16 years old.
Hello classmates, see your sharing, reminds me that I used to lose things sloppily, careless mistakes on exams are experienced by many people, I'm glad to be able to talk about this topic with you~
★First, let's freshen up."You often forget the location of your belongings, miss things, or make careless mistakes on tests":
For example, if you lose an eraser, you might think, "It's okay, I'll just buy it again on the cheap." But if it's an expensive cell phone or computer, will you pay more attention to it? Because they are worth more, you will naturally pay more attention to them.
3,
Watch for yourself to unintentionally gain the attention of others by dropping the ball
.. When there is a careless person around, people tend to remind TA and take care of them more often, and this attention may fulfill the need to be cared for.4,A few early experiences of carelessness may have led you to develop a fixed mindset of "I'm just sloppy".
This thought traps you and leads to recurring problems.The above points are just common possibilities that may not exactly fit your situation, and are intended to help you become more deeply self-aware and find the reasons behind carelessness. It's normal to be unconfident or to crave attention, and even the best of us can have similar experiences.If self-confidence is the main issue, it is recommended to read theIdentifying with yourself: transcending your innate weaknessesand the
Inferiority and Transcendence
The book.
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How do you solve the problem of losing things?Getting into the habit of making lists.Make it a habit to leave the house, take a test, or do something
Make a list of essential items, check it in the morning, before you leave, and at night. The checklist can be succinct, and for a more in-depth look, we recommend reading the
Smart people are list people.".
★ How can I improve my poor knowledge organization skills?
1. Learning to draw mind maps thatHelps to clarify the connections between knowledge points and make learning more organized.
2. Establishment of a wrong book.
Summarize the patterns and points of difference in the wrong questions, highlight and mark them, and review them several times before the exam.
I hope these suggestions will help you, I am a little helper, patiently listening to your worries, and gently accompanying the growth ~ I wish you all the best!