My fiancé's brother recently got a girlfriend and I heard that her family is coming over to my fiancé's house for the holidays. I had already planned to go for the holidays, but as soon as I heard the news I didn't want to go, and I especially didn't want to attend the meals over there. Is this a problem? Should I go there as planned or not? I'm afraid that the other person will think that I hate her, but I'm just a little bit sociopathic and I'm not ready to meet so many people.
I'd appreciate any advice you can give me!
Hello my friend! Saw your confusion and gave you a warm hug first!
You don't want to meet your fiance's brother's girlfriend, are you worried about something?
Maybe you're nervous about meeting new people because you're an introvert.
Or feel like she's still a stranger to you and don't know how to get along.
It's also possible that you're worried that you won't be able to find a topic to talk about when you meet and that it will be awkward.
In fact, there are a lot of topics to chat about!
For example, talk about the recent weather, Chinese New Year movies or hot TV series, etc.
You can also choose not to go if you don't feel you're ready.
You can tell your fiancé's brother that you already have other plans for this vacation and that you will see him on the next one.
Whatever you decide, the most important thing is to listen to your heart.
Never push yourself or you won't be happy if you go.
I really hope your problem is solved soon!
That's all I can think of at the moment.
I hope my answer is helpful and inspiring. I am the answerer learning well everyday.
In, the world and I love you. Good luck oh!