After being with my girlfriend for over six months, the initial excitement of being in a hot relationship is calming down and I'm starting to worry that the relationship will become monotonous. I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to tell funny jokes, that I would seem boring, and even wondered if it wasn't a good fit for the two of us, or if I wouldn't be able to show my true self?
Hi, building owner! I'm Psychological Support Partner Kohoku, and I'd like to start by giving you a warm hug. I can especially relate to your feelings, and from what you've shared, I can see that you and your girlfriend have been dating for a while. Actually, six months isn't that short, but you have an unspoken anxiety and worry now, which is quite common.
The key thing in a relationship is to be your true self. Because we can't wear a mask forever, one day we will show our true colors. So why don't you show your true side earlier and see if two people really fit together.
Maybe the other person doesn't care about those points you are worried about? How about trying to talk about the insecurities in your mind, maybe she doesn't think it's a problem, it's just that we're overthinking it ourselves. A lot of worries are made up in our own head and are not true. When you encounter this kind of confusion, you must be brave to share your true feelings.
Blessings to you all~ (Little Mental Assistant Koboku 🐳)