Hi, I'm actually asking this for a friend.
My friend's schoolwork is particularly intense at school, and when she comes home her mom is super strict, meddling in everything, big and small, and it literally stresses her out to the point where she can't breathe.
She often feels extreme anxiety and can even have thoughts of suicide or self-harm, and these are not just due to the stresses of the present, but also related to some of her experiences as a child.
In her words, she probably wouldn't have made it without my support and companionship.
Let's be honest, not everyone knows how to be a good parent.
So yeah, you have to make up your own mind about a lot of things.
Counseling services are available on this platform, she should live for herself and try online detachment first.
You need to give her the courage to do counseling on this platform now, people may not listen to advice when they are at a low point, but professional guidance may be able to save her.