I am 15 years old and have been forced to have sex by my stepfather since I was 11 years old. Not only does my mom not protect me, she acquiesces to my stepfather's behavior and even lets me join in when they are intimate, simply because my stepfather is too old for her and she is afraid of losing her dependence after the divorce. They took my first time just like that, what should I do now?
Hello, landlord! You must have suffered internally from experiencing your stepfather's rape before you were even an adult. Thinking that your mother would be your safe haven, she sacrificed you for fear of divorce, which made you even more desperate and lonely, I guess.
First of all, the stepfather's behavior is a serious crime. If possible, quietly gather evidence and call the police, but always prioritize ensuring your own safety. The most important thing at the moment is to help yourself and get out of this twisted situation as soon as possible. The police and legal agencies are there to provide support.
Your mother lacks a sense of independence, is dependent on others, and even loses her bottom line. Such a mother cannot give you real shelter.
Many women grow up in traditional environments where they are easily controlled by men and neglect their self-worth, resulting in their inability to be independent. This not only harms themselves, but also spreads to the next generation.
You need to work on growing up and striving for financial independence, then break free of that bondage and develop spiritual autonomy. Only then can you turn things around and break the bad cycle in your family.
Come on, take the first step!